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Do I Have to Forgive?

By on September 28, 2019

DO I HAVE TO FORGIVE?

There's a story in the Bible about Peter that makes me laugh every time I read it. Peter was a disciple of Jesus who had a brother named Andrew (who was also a disciple of Jesus). At one point, Peter asked Jesus a question:

“Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times." Matthew 18:21-22

So, why do I laugh when I read this? I grew up as the oldest of four kids so I can't help but read this passage without the filter of that bias. From the moment I first read this passage, I imagined Peter glaring at Andrew as he essentially asked Jesus "how many times do I have to forgive my wicked, slimy, no good, double-crossing, swindling, scheming brother?" I easily imagine Andrew repeatedly getting under Peter's skin and Peter wanting Jesus to put Andrew in his place. This behavior would certainly fall right in line with the long and rich history of one brother (or sister) trying to get another brother in trouble. I know that was certainly my experience.

But, imagination aside, it's much more likely that Peter's question was simply a general question in response to what Jesus had already been teaching about forgiveness. So, giving Peter the benefit of the doubt, we should take note of a couple of things going on in this passage:

  • Peter understands that he is supposed to forgive.
  • Peter thinks it is a great matter to forgive seven times.

As a Jewish man, Peter would have been taught that God extends forgiveness "for three transgressions but sends judgment after four" (Amos 2:1). So, by asking Jesus if he was supposed to forgive seven times, Peter likely thought he was being incredibly generous. Peter was probably expecting an "attaboy" or some other affirmation from Jesus. If so, he was likely deflated when Jesus replied (paraphrased) "there is no limit to how many times you should forgive." Later, Jesus put His words into action as He modeled what forgiveness looks like.

Consider this:

After Jesus had been betrayed
After Jesus had been put through an illegal trial
After Jesus had been mocked
After Jesus had been beaten and whipped
After Jesus had been stripped naked
After Jesus had been forced to carry His own execution device through hostile crowds
After Jesus had been nailed to a cross and hanged to die in excruciating agony
After Jesus had been taunted to prove Himself by coming off the cross
After Jesus had been jeered at by the criminals being executed next to him
After Jesus had to push Himself up using the nails in his feet just so He could breathe...

He was still somehow able to say "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Luke 22:34

He didn't say those words hoping that they would change their minds and release Him. He said those words because He knew what would happen if the full wrath of God was poured out on the world. He said those words because He knew that there were some there who would eventually repent and turn to God and that without forgiveness, that could never happen.

If there was ever someone who would have been justified for not forgiving, it would have been Jesus. Yet Jesus did forgive and in so doing, showed the world that forgiveness has no limits. There is no one that can possibly say that they were treated worse than Jesus was treated and that it's OK not to forgive.

Consider this... If someone comes to you who has done you great harm and they sincerely ask you for forgiveness and you choose to give it to them, you are following the example modeled by Jesus. But there's more; you also take a great load off of two people - them and you.

But maybe there are people who have harmed you that don't ask you for forgiveness. Maybe there are people who have hurt you and either don't realize it or they don't care. Even worse... maybe there are people that know they hurt you and are energized by it! What then?

There is still great freedom that comes when we let go of that hurt and choose to forgive. When we forgive, we follow the example that Jesus modeled for us AND we free ourselves from a heavy, crippling weight that adds to the harm already done to us.

So how do we let go?

Several years ago, I was sitting down at a restaurant thinking on this very thing and a thought came to me. I quickly grabbed a napkin and a pen and wrote this down:

Forgiveness comes when we take a long, thoughtful look at the person who wronged us, recognize the depth of the brokenness of the person who wronged us, and look on their brokenness with an equal measure of compassion.

I believe that's how Jesus was able to forgive those who harmed him as He was suffering on the cross (which, by the way, includes all of humanity - not just those with Him at the time). He saw our brokenness and looked upon that brokenness with compassion. If we sincerely pray for the willingness and the ability to look upon the brokenness of the people that have hurt us and respond with compassion, we can be confident that God will honor that prayer and free us from the hurt that has kept us from letting go.

God Didn’t Have to Do Anything for Us

By on July 23, 2019

Right now, I’m engaged in a Blitz through the Bible campaign. Basically, I’ve challenged myself to read the whole Bible in 2 months. I do this occasionally because it helps me to see the bigger picture of the Bible. When I do this, I’m always amazed how I can read something in the Old Testament in the morning and then read something later that night in the New Testament that gives reference to what I read earlier.

The books of Romans and Hebrews really come to life when read soon after reading the first few books of the Old Testament. It becomes quickly apparent that the two testaments are truly one story. God’s story. It becomes apparent that God’s story is not about us. It’s about God and what He did for us. Now, in His story, there are heroes and villains throughout; but those individual stories are diminished when taken apart from God’s bigger story. All of those stories, when seen as a single story, allow us to see a God who would stop at nothing to save His people. All of those stories point to a single act of sacrifice where one God-Man, Jesus, gave up His life as a ransom for many (Mark 10:45).

There are many people who deny God’s story. There are many others who claim that eternal life can be found in other stories. There are a lot of road signs out there that say “This Way to Eternal Life.” Many make the claim that all of these roads lead to the same destination…

Jesus made it clear that that was not the case.

One day Jesus was trying to tell His friends that He would soon be killed yet He was trying to comfort them:

“Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also. And you know the way to where I am going.” 

Thomas said to him, “Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?” Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:1-6

Many object to this statement. Many who claim that there are many ways to God (or whatever their version of God is) say that this isn’t fair. It’s exclusive. It’s narrow minded. It’s mean-spirited. I’d say to them, consider this:

  1. Jesus created it all, He gets to make the rules (John 1:3 and Colossians 1:16 assert that Jesus created everything).
  2. Jesus didn’t keep it a secret. He put it out there for everyone to know. There is a way to God. I am that way.

Finally I would tell them this:

Jesus was under no obligation to make a way at all. There didn’t have to be any path to God. The fact that there is a way to God at all testifies to the love, mercy, and grace of God.

Jesus did make a way. He, Himself was and is that way.  What the Bible does for us is show us that way. Now you might say, “I’ve read the Bible, I know the way.” I’d say to you, “Not as well as if you were to read it again.” So… go for it. Find a Bible reading plan that works for you. There are many great ones out there. Just do it. There are no other words that lead to eternal life and no other source that can tell you authoritatively how to live a life pleasing to God.

P.S. If you really want to have a good time, have a go at reading it in 2 or 3 months. The YouVersion Bible app has a Read the Bible in 90 Days Plan and a Read the New Testament in 30 Days plan. I’m working both at the same time. So… go for it.

If I Were the Savior…

By on July 21, 2019

I used to love reading a comic book called What If? This comic book would take something that happened in one of the Marvel comics stories and present a new story answering questions such as:

  • What If Spider-Man Joined the Fantastic Four?
  • What If the Hulk had the Brain of Bruce Banner?
  • What If Jane Foster had Found the Hammer of Thor?

One question I used to ask my youth group was What If Jesus came off the cross when He was challenged to do so?

BACKGROUND
Jesus had been arrested, beaten, falsely accused, beaten, humiliated, mocked, nailed to a cross, and mocked again…

And those who passed by derided him, wagging their heads and saying, “You who would destroy the temple and rebuild it in three days, save yourself! If you are the Son of God, come down from the cross.” So also the chief priests, with the scribes and elders, mocked him, saying, “He saved others; he cannot save himself. He is the King of Israel; let him come down now from the cross, and we will believe in him. He trusts in God; let God deliver him now, if he desires him. For he said, ‘I am the Son of God.’” And the robbers who were crucified with him also reviled him in the same way.
Matthew 27:39-44 (ESV)

There are several instances where Jesus was tempted in the Bible (Matthew 4:5-11 documents three of these). Satan knew that if he could get Jesus to sin, God’s plan would fail. It’s reasonable to believe that Satan didn’t know what God’s plan was, he just wanted God to fail (after all, if Satan knew that God’s plan was for Jesus to die, he wouldn’t have moved evil men to have Jesus killed). But there were also other instances where Jesus was likely tempted. I can easily see this moment when Jesus was on the cross as being one of those.

Now if it were me, the story would have ended entirely differently. If I were on the cross and it was my mission to save the world by dying and I had the power of God at my disposal… the instant some mocking, loud-mouthed so and so said “If you are the Son of God, come down from the cross!” it would’ve been <POOF> <ZAP> GAME ON!

I would’ve popped off the cross, hovered in the air, summoned my angel army and there would’ve been lightning and earthquakes. It would’ve looked like a Michael Bay movie with Peter Jackson embellishments.

And in so doing, my mission would fail.

If Jesus had responded to that challenge by coming of the cross, everything would be different. There would’ve been no means left by which mankind could be reconciled to God. Afterward, if Jesus didn’t simply destroy everything outright and let the world continue to be, every person born would live their miserable lives, die their miserable deaths, and live miserably forever with Satan without any hope for rescue.

What a terrible story that would’ve been. Fortunately for us, the real story goes like this:

For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God. 1 Peter 3:18

That’s a much better story!

Do Not Touch

By on July 19, 2019

I’ve done it. You’ve probably done it, too. Odds are good that neither of us likely would have done it except for that one thing that pretty much guaranteed that we would do it…

The Do Not Touch sign.

That one sign almost begs that something gets touched. For instance, when I go to the Corvette museum and I stand next to a vintage 1963 split-window model, it’s all I can do not to touch it. And yes… there’s a sign. Conversely, when I’m at the Smithsonian Air and Space Museum, there is a sign that actually encourages people to touch a moon rock. As cool as that is, I almost don’t want to. Again, because of the sign.

We all tend to want to do those things that aren’t allowed and we all seem to yawn at doing the things that everyone is permitted to do.

In the Bible, there is a tragic story of a man who died because he ignored the instructions of God and touched the Ark of the Covenant. There were rules dictating how to handle the Ark and the rule maker was God and He was serious.

Consider this… Whenever the Israelites were directed by God to go into battle, the Ark would go before their army and the Israelites would be victorious. However, the Israelites eventually came to believe that it was the Ark of the Covenant that gave them victory in battle rather than the God of the Ark of the Covenant that gave them the victory. So there were times when they took it into battle and they lost the battle because God was not with them. On one particular occasion, God allowed Israel to be beaten so badly that the Ark ended up in the hands of the enemy.  Why?

Because God takes holiness seriously. God brought judgment on His people because they treated that which was most holy as something that was simply common.

A long time ago, while at a Petra concert, I saw a quote on the back of a T-Shirt that said: The righteousness He requires is the righteousness His righteousness requires Him to require. That’s what’s going on here.

Eventually the Ark was sent back to Israel but Israel still did not treat it in the manner that was required by God. The Ark was placed on a cart and pulled by an Ox. This was not the way God had dictated that the Ark be transported. Not even close. The driver of the cart was a man named Uzzah. At one point, the ox stumbled and Uzzah reached out to steady the Ark and…

Uzzah was killed.

Now… maybe it’s just me but… this seems harsh. After all, it appears as if he were simply trying to protect the Ark when the Ox stumbled. It might have even been a reflex action – no different than a mom who throws her arm in front of her kids when she has to hit the brakes hard (my mom did this a lot – which, in retrospect, might say something about her driving).

Nonetheless, what Uzzah did was just the final wrong performed in a long sequence of wrongs.

There’s a lot we don’t know about Uzzah. In all the time he lived with the Ark (about 20 years), how often did he admire it? How often did he have to suppress the urge to reach out and touch it?  Just one time. Just for a quick second.

I would have been tempted to do the same thing.

So, when Uzzah was chosen to drive the cart, it may be that when the cart started to roll, Uzzah just carried through on what he already had in his heart to do. He touched the Ark. In his mind, he was just trying to save it. But that wasn’t his job and God had to re-teach a lesson that his people had forgotten in regards to dealing with the Holy things of God. In this particular lesson, a man died.

As you might imagine, sudden, dramatic death certainly tends to get one’s attention. It certainly got the attention of King David. And that’s where we will pick up next time because this is already much longer than when I first started preaching about it in my mind…

If Paul Sinned, I Must Not be So Bad, Right?

By on July 13, 2019

When you think of Paul, it’s easy to believe he had this Christianity thing down. Perhaps not so much early on when he was trying to arrest and kill Christians. I’m talking about after he came face to face with the living Jesus and became perhaps the greatest voice for Jesus the world has ever known.

So, did Paul have this Christianity thing down? We know a lot about Paul. If we were to put together a top ten list of the greatest Christians to have ever lived, Paul would probably be near the top of the list. The book of Acts tells of many of Paul’s deeds. However, it’s through his letters that we truly get insight into the heart of Paul. In his letter to the Romans, we see that this man who did so much to shape the Christian church and the Christian life was quick to admit that he wasn’t perfect. Not at all. For instance, here are his own words:

Romans 7:15-20 (ESV) – I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. Now if I do what I do not want, I agree with the law, that it is good. So now it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me.

Now, it would be easy for the Christian to look at these words and take comfort in them. After all, if Paul had all of this sin in his life, then he really wasn’t too different from us, right?

It would be easy for us to assign our worst sin to Paul and convince ourselves that Paul struggled with that exact same sin as us. We could convince ourselves that our sin can’t be that bad because Paul struggled with it, as well.

Now, we don’t know what sins Paul struggled with. We don’t even know if Paul struggled with “sin” or if he struggled with “SIN” (because we have a tendency to believe that some sins are bad and some sins are really bad). What we do know is this… we can’t take comfort in knowing that Paul sinned and therefore believe that it must be OK that we do to. We can’t say that “if Paul sinned, then I’m in really good company.” The problem with such thinking is that when we measure ourselves against another person, it’s easy to believe that we’re not so bad – especially if we see that person as “pretty good.”

Instead, we must measure ourselves against the only person we should weigh ourselves against – Jesus. When we do that, our shortcomings become readily apparent. When we do that, we don’t take hope in Paul’s confession. Instead, we despair along with him as we realize and confess that we are wicked and in desperate need of the change that only Jesus can give.

However, Paul does give us something in which we can place our hope:

Romans 7:24-25 (ESV) – Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! 

And that one statement by Paul is a pretty good summary of his letter to the Romans. We are indeed a wretched people, but we have hope in Jesus Christ our Lord.